Who do men see as an ideal wife. 5 secret points
After reading these points, it is hard to believe that a man shared his opinion - they are too similar to what we, girls, strive to get from relationships with men, and not vice versa. It turns out that we are all from Mars and Venus at the same time. Judge for yourself. So, who do men see as an ideal wife?
1. Someone you can trust.
Not just when you go out with girls and he knows that means you go out with girls, nothing more. He needs someone to whom he can open up his fears, worries, secrets and know that he will not be ridiculed or put in an awkward position at the first opportunity. Trust is the basis of any relationship, no matter how trite it may sound.
2. Someone who will support you in any situation.
He may be getting ready to quit and find himself, he may want to move to another country in search of new opportunities, he may not want to have a thousand and one children (unlike you) and limit himself to a couple, and he should know that you will support him in this. It only sounds simple. Imagine: you have a car loan, a rented apartment and you always want to eat, and he comes and says: "I quit." Exactly. But this very first reaction is false. By supporting a man even in what seems unreasonable-untimely-unfair to you, you will only strengthen the foundation of your relationship.
3. Someone who enjoys spending time with him, but can happily spend time alone or with friends.
In general, the recipe is as simple as it gets. He's going to a bar with friends? Well, don't whine, go with your girlfriends to bake pies, go ice skating/rollerblading/skiing, watch TV series or movie premieres, go to the theater for inspiration, or to an exhibition for fresh emotions. Personal space - not only hasn't been cancelled, it always works for good relationships.
4. Someone he will have amazing sex with.
And varied. And spontaneous. And meticulously prepared. And tender. And tough. And through "I have a headache." And even such that when nothing worked out, it's not scary, you can hug and fall asleep. Sex, of course, is not the main thing in a relationship, but one of the most important components.
5. Someone who has goals and aspirations, not just motivational pictures on social media.
Relationships develop when partners: a) look in the same direction, b) are maximally involved in the process, c) prefer to grow over difficulties individually and together.
