How a woman can overcome the tricks and wiles of men
Sometimes men can resort to various tricks in relationships. They can disappear and appear, they can play their insidious game to drag a woman into bed.
Let's consider how a woman should properly respond to such tricks of men.
1. You need to learn to accept men in their natural shell.
Don't be mad at them if they suddenly decide to blackmail you with sex. A man is simply testing women. If he encounters a woman who gives him sex too quickly, he can't be blamed for that.
Every man dreams deep down in his soul of finding a girl who would be his faithful companion for life. Men expect women to react correctly to male sexual blackmail.
If your new friend asked you to have sex within two months your acquaintance, don't be afraid to refuse him. It is the refusal that will raise your rating in his eyes.
Sometimes women get very angry when they find out that men are testing them in this way. Testing is a way to move you from the status of "just a girlfriend" to the status of "decent girl".
2. Men sometimes resort to certain tricks to make women want to have sex with them.
The man arranges luxurious evenings and dates for the girl, kisses her on the cheek, takes her to various beautiful places, and then disappears for a while.
The girl starts writing to the man, trying to call him on the phone. This is a clear sign for the man that everything is unfolding exactly according to his scenario. He appears on the horizon again, and again the woman feels herself happy.
The man does this a couple of times, and then the woman gets the feeling that she needs to "tie" the man to herself as quickly as possible. She enters into sexual contact with him. The man is completely satisfied, because his scheme worked again 100%.
A woman should definitely refuse a man sex. Moreover, she should definitely ask the man when they will meet next time. If the man does not keep his promise, then he will definitely be to blame.
Men don't like being made to feel guilty. You shouldn't make an appointment with a man more than once a week. It's better to make it on days that are convenient for you, not for the man. If he doesn't manage to meet you, then that's his problem.
A woman must show a man that she will not play by his rules, that she will not wait for him to text or call first. This is how a man will begin to value the relationship.
3. Some women think that if they refuse men sex, then men will immediately find other girls.
Often this is exactly what happens. If a man is rejected here, at that time he can easily be with another girl who turned out to be simpler.
But this is not important, what is important is that you clearly set your position before the man. If he wants a simple relationship, let him go and have fun somewhere, as he wants, but if he needs a relationship where he will be loved, then he must win you over.
Source http://seered.ru/blog/preodolenie_zhenshhinoj_khitrostej_i_ulovok_muzhchin/2015-02-15-29
