How to learn the art of flirting?

There is a certain language of flirting between a woman and a man. Some are naturally given to understand it, while others have a lot to learn. This language consists mainly of words, the meaning of which is sometimes hidden, as well as more understandable gestures.

So what is flirting?

These are the actions that are aimed at mutual interest in each other. By its nature, flirting is funny, fun, interesting, and most importantly safe.

Having mastered the rules of this craft, you can decide to get to know a previously unapproachable person, which you were previously incapable of.

With the help of a filter, you can express yourself in a more unusual, bold way, and tune in to romantic mood, and also encourage your interlocutor. In this state, you feel a surge of strength and energy, and also feel very confident.

Through flirting, you can develop friendships or relationships that can lead to a family in the future.

But the symptoms that are inherent in flirting cause ambiguous feelings in many people. This dry mouth, sweaty palms, increased anxiety and restlessness, or a rumbling stomach. What to do about all this?

1.Getting rid of fear. The feeling of constant fear is very exhausting for the body. As a result, we get inactivity and the collapse of dreams. It is important to remember that everyone is afraid of something to one degree or another. To overcome fear, you need to:

• Don't expect too much from simple flirting. Even if you really like the person, don't fantasize about your cloudless future, so as to avoid disappointment later. Enjoy his presence now and don't run ahead.

• The key to mastering the science of flirting will be confidence in your own strengths and yourself, as well as real self-esteem. Such people, without even thinking, radiate charm and charm.

2. Throw away emotional attitudes. Forget what you were told in childhood. After all, not all people are perfect, and such a judgment can significantly reduce self-esteem and lead a person to depression and neuroses.

Such attitudes prevent you from enjoying what is happening now and make many unhappy. Take your family, loved ones and friends as they are and do not idealize them, then happiness will smile upon you.

3. Avoid criticizing others. How does this relate to you? Directly. If you think realistically, you will understand that everyone has the right to make mistakes, including you. And instead of criticizing, support the person. And in his eyes, you will look confident and dignified.

So fight your fear, raise your self-esteem, and your circle of acquaintances will be replenished with more than one person!

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