20 questions that will reveal the real you

There are questions that can only be answered by the person who asked them. We publishes an article that will help you learn a lot of new things about yourself.
I always tried to achieve more, to become better. But I never asked myself questions, questions that would move me forward and make me look around. They just piled up like a snowball, but I never had the courage to gather my courage and honestly answer myself.
One day I thought: what should I hide from myself? And then, what would be more painful - to ignore these questions or to try to understand myself and take a step towards the life I always wanted?
So, here are 20 questions that helped me change my life and learn everything about myself:
1. What is important to you in life?
Make a list, be honest with yourself.
2. What is really important to you?
Again, this is your own list. Write about what what was important to you before someone else explained it to you.
3. What is your deepest, most secret desire?
You know perfectly well what desire is. Just be honest and admit it. You will feel great… and free.
4. If you knew for sure that your undertaking would not fail, would you try to implement it?
No one will give you such promises, but what's stopping you from believing in yourself right now?
5. If not now, then when?
The past is gone forever, and the future is not guaranteed. What are you waiting for?
6. Whose permission do you need?
You know perfectly well that all you need is your own permission, but you are looking for someone else's approval or even a "magic kick".
7. What stops you?
Since you still haven't started to achieve what you really want.
8. Who or what is holding you back?
The only answer is you.
9. If you don't know what you want, why don't you try to find out?
You can be content with little and go with the flow, not knowing where it will take you. But whether this will bring satisfaction is another question.
10. When you know what you really want, do you try to get it?
Most people ignore or talk themselves out of this idea.
11. Did you include yourself in this list?
If not, now is the time to do it.
12. If you don't value yourself, how can you be happy?
After all, this won't happen by accident.
13. What excuse do you use most often?
Would you use it to justify yourself to your best friend?
14. When will you stop making excuses?
Excuses prevent you from achieving what you want. However, if they do not prevent you from living happily, the choice is yours.
15. Do you feel good when you use excuses?
I'm guessing not. Just a guess. But I bet you feel a lot better when you make progress.
16. Will you be able to achieve the results you want if you keep making excuses?
It would be a shame to wake up one day and regret that you could have achieved much higher results if you had not made endless excuses for yourself. Don't let that happen.
17. Why not just be honest with yourself?
Lying to yourself is not a difficult thing, but you know how useless it is. Yes, it may hurt to be honest with yourself, but it is much more painful to constantly deceive yourself.
18. How long can you continue doing what you are doing now?
If you don't like what you do, how long will you continue doing it? 6 months? 1 year? 5 years? If you don't take action and start changing something, nothing will change.
19. Do you choose comfort over happiness?
And there is a difference here. Find out what it is for you and what you choose.
And last but not least:
20. If a question causes a strong response in you, will you make excuses or start doing something?
There is another option: just sit and do nothing. Procrastinate. And even if you prefer comfort to happiness. But let me ask: what would the real you do?
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