7 Signs You've Met the One

Sometimes, in order to get married happily, people - both men and women - wait for many years. Some are in too much of a hurry and make mistakes, while others, on the contrary, drag it out until the question of marriage ceases to be relevant at all, and also make mistakes.

But all you have to do is not miss this moment that will determine your whole life.

A friend of mine told me: he was riding to school and at Kashirskaya he suddenly saw the one he wanted to spend his whole life with. I asked him: "Was she unusually beautiful?" He said: "I don't know, I didn't even see her face." "What?!" I was amazed. - "Well..." he answered. "Just her figure." - "But did you at least remember what she was wearing?" - "Of course! Skinny jeans, a blue windbreaker, worn-out sneakers." - "And that's it?" - "That's it." It remains to be added that he didn't even dare approach her out of excitement. The morning train was shaking mercilessly, she got off at Kantemirovskaya, and he was left with this feeling for the rest of his life. How does this feeling arise, that you have met Her?

Rule #1. It all started no one knows when and no one knows why. Right away.

Just a second ago you felt nothing, but suddenly it happened. A glance, a turn of the head - and you have already aimed all the sights of your turret guns at her, and this sight does not go astray, despite any irritants. Friends can tell you something important, but her image runs across the screen like a flaming ticker.

You can't get away from him even at home, alone with yourself. You expect something from this woman, but you understand that it is not just a desire to possess her, no! It is definitely something else.

They say that it’s not even about pheromones, but about the feeling that the key has finally entered the lock without any gaps, and the comfort of the bed has nothing to do with it: your internal profiles match, and this is clear without any bed.

In the end, it is not the way a woman looks or acts that turns you on, but the future that suddenly unfolds before your eyes and promises bliss every second. You are intrigued by how she will look alone with you, in closeness, you want to achieve her amazement, exhaustion. You want to be an element for her - a whirlwind, a blizzard, a sandstorm - that she will not be able to resist.

Rule #2: You don't get tired of her.

A wife is not just a lover, she is first and foremost a person with whom you are compatible 24 hours a day. Whether you are healthy or have a cold, dressed to the nines or hanging around the house in your underwear and Crocs, inspired or bored, your wife will accept you no matter what.

You can be together for 6, 7, 8 hours straight on a date, and after that you still won’t want to leave, although with others even after a stormy date you want to say goodbye and be alone. Not wanting to leave – not because you still want to achieve something from her – is the main sign that you can live in the same house.

Rule #3: She doesn't put you down. Or anyone else, that's not her style.

She gives you freedom, and you understand that - from the very first second. That is, she is already such a person - no matter how old she is - that she is quite capable of not hanging on to you. You are not a wallet for her, measured by it, but another person who must be treated with respect. If a person respects a person, that is, as they say, everything. The basis.

If in the middle of a conversation with you she, breaking her purring tone, starts yelling or hissing at the waiter, demanding a "clean tablecloth", know: she will treat you in much the same way as soon as she doesn't like something about you. But you are not a waiter, you won't be able to leave. It is clearly too early to talk about marriage: her character will fail her in the first few hours. But be grateful to the Universe for giving you a chance to consider her.

A truly intelligent and developed woman will never insist on her own way, or try to convince you from the very first steps. You are not an idiot either, to start laying out your views on life from the very first phrases, right?

You just feel like you've been given an important place in life, and that in itself is blissful.

Rule #4: She reveals herself from a new side every time, and this makes me happy every time.

She doesn't have to play every sport, write plays, or walk the runway to amaze you every time, but for some reason, every day you spend reveals her in a way that makes you realize she's inexhaustible.

It's not just "not boring" with her - she has grown an amazing garden in herself, in which you feel like an invited guest. The garden opens its doors to you, and you enter there slightly stupefied by the aromas and walk around until you get bored.

Rule #5: She merged with you voluntarily, while being separate, and you accepted her because you really wanted to.

You feel that from a certain point you and she become one organism. It is unclear what kind of effect this is: she has her own arms, legs, opinions about what is good and what is bad...

If, for example, you disagree on political views, this is not only not a reason to quarrel, but also a chance to find a compromise without pedaling or avoiding the “dangerous” topic of disagreement.

She is an extension of you, a Looking Glass that you will discover throughout your life.

She is endless for you. You fall into her, as she into you. Year after year.

Rule #6: She has no secrets that she hides from you to your detriment.

This is a very important aspect: her secrets, which you have no right to intrude upon, cannot be directed against you. Sometimes her whole being is love for you, and your whole being is love for her, which does not deny the existence of personal space for each of you.

If desired, any of your SMS, any content on your work or home computer or social blog can be interpreted against you or her, but the main thing is that such a desire does not even arise.

If she cheated on you, she will be beside herself and will eventually confess to ease her soul - to you, not to her friend. And all because she is yours.

Rule #7: She has accepted that you are destined to spend your life together, and you are happy that it is so.

Both you and she seemed to immediately stock up on inexhaustible patience, mobilizing it to cover the longest distance.

Life will test you, tripping you up constantly: your car broke down, your child got sick, you were fired from work. There are also more serious reasons - the death of parents, for example, or simply a long period of lack of money, seemingly hopeless situations, the "Russian blues" that comes and falls on you out of the blue whether you like it or not. So, at the very first moment of your first meeting, you become convinced that this person will endure everything no matter what.

Her entire behavior, her manner of holding herself, speaks of this. You feel with your whole being that your girlfriend is a kind, patient person, tuned in to you with all her receptors, and this seems like pure magic.

And, in essence, that is how it is.

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