TOP 10 Myths About Sex
Sex is an important part of our life. Much else depends on how these relationships develop: mood, success at work and in other matters, the desire to improve.
In modern society, the dynamics of relationships between men and women are the most damaged. Men believe that this is not the main thing, and nature has already given everything that is needed. Women, not receiving the necessary emotional nourishment from relationships, rush to extremes. From completely ignoring the needs of their bodies to a manic search for a more interesting partner. In fact, relationships should be easy and honest. Let's reveal the main misconceptions about sex.
Love will last forever
On average, the endorphin wave subsides after 1.5 years. Brain research using the latest neuroimaging technology proves that in a person in love, the activity of the brain areas responsible for critical thinking is suppressed. Which, as you understand, cannot last long, since it threatens the survival of humans as a species. But it lasts long enough for the lovers to conceive and give birth to a child.
And, since the main task of man as a species is fulfilled, nature mercilessly “pulls out the endorphin needle”. Despite the age of high technology, our bodies still live by the instincts of distant ancestors. Remember the beginning of your relationship. And what about now? “Yes, it was different then” is the answer of many.
A French kiss should be long.
A proper French kiss is short. This phase lasts 2-3 seconds.
As you know, if you stick your tongue out for a long time, a lot of saliva starts to flow. And there is nothing worse than drooling into your partner's mouth. But few people admit to this - "after all, they showed it in the movies."
A man's main pleasure is concentrated in the genitals
A man is capable of receiving acute sexual pleasure from caressing other parts of the body that are not connected with the genitals. It is only necessary to take into account that the sensitivity of the male body is several times less than that of the female. Therefore, it is necessary to caress it a little more strongly than a girl would touch herself or another girl.
And it's not about "adding brightness to 5%." Mastering techniques sets a woman apart from the rest, just as instant coffee in the office sets you apart from Kopi Luwak.
A good lover must be born
In sex, everyone is zero from the start. Yes, someone is more sensual, someone less. But technically, everyone is zero. Doubt it? Try to build communication with your partner to the level where you can discuss the most intimate moments together. And in such communication, separate the emotional component from the brightness of physical sensations. You will see for yourself that a significant part of mutual pleasure is filled precisely from the emotional side. Remember point 1 - with a high probability, this will pass.
It's never too late to learn quality sex. It doesn't matter if you're 25 or 50. Just don't learn from theorists. Because the theoretical knowledge that a man and a woman take to bed, about how "the female clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings," "the G-spot is 3 cm from the entrance," and "for a male orgasm, you need to press the $1,000,000 point," will give both of them nothing but a headache.
The main thing is to get to know each other!
People spend a lot of time, effort and money to meet someone. It is extremely difficult for men in this regard. Getting ready and coming to a cafe (club/bar/park - underline as appropriate) - one unit of energy, going up to meet someone - another unit of energy, getting a phone number (if you are lucky) - another unit of energy, calling - another. If you do not meet the girl of your dreams this time, then the next day or next Friday everything will happen again. And this can go on for weeks and months.
And so, after some time, the man meets his "Angelina Jolie", sex happens. In 90% cases, the picture is standard. And, oddly enough, the girls also have something to compare with. Then do not be surprised why the relationship does not last longer than 3 months.
But if you are cheerful, attractive, have a sense of humor and are a total smasher in bed, your “Angelina Jolie” will never go away.
All this also applies to girls who can’t seem to get their personal relationships going.
Orgasm is not important to her
It is important, and how. It's just that the history of female pleasure only goes back decades.
If you ask any girl, 90% had a similar story: the guy has already taken her on two or three dates, she is in anticipation of intimacy. And when after 5-7 minutes she hears "oh, sorry" and it's all over, she thinks disappointedly: "what about me?"
But at first, the emotional side of the relationship compensates for the poor quality of sex. And then the woman either consciously sacrifices her pleasure for the sake of the relationship, or begins to think that she is broken. Both are unnecessary extremes that can easily be avoided.
You can learn sex from porn movies
This is also a well-known misconception. Porn films are pure entertainment, they are made by men and for men. You can't learn quality sex from them. The Internet is a complete profanation of knowledge on the topic of sex.
And this wrong picture of sex, when a man strokes a woman like a handrail in the subway, and she moans with pleasure - is transferred to real life. And in real life, a woman can only be warmed up on a cold winter evening with such touches. And the man makes the wrong conclusion: "I'm unlucky, she's frigid!"
There is no G-spot
Recently, scientists have proven again that there is no G-point. There is a G-point, there is no G-point. There is life on Mars, there is no life on Mars - science does not know.
How do scientists look for it? Try to imagine the process of such scientific research on a more or less decent scale. What do women feel who participate in such research? Certainly not excitement or joy from being in the specialist's chair. And as a result, a scientist who knows how many nerve endings there are in the female clitoris and has seen it all under a microscope, can't find the mysterious G-spot!
In fact, it is not a point, but a whole area. And finding it if the woman is not aroused is impossible in principle.
Official erogenous zones
In addition to the “official” erogenous zones, both men and women have unknown, even non-standard ones, the stimulation of which also causes a lot of pleasant sensations.
In addition, at different moments of sex, completely "unrelated" areas of the skin can become powerful erogenous zones for a woman, causing sensations of great intensity, up to orgasm. For example, an orgasm from caressing the breast, area on the shoulder or back.
"I gave it to him"
Another very common misconception. If you look at the icon of a man and a woman, there is no "I gave it to him". The man is the giving side.
But for some reason we have become so accustomed to this turn of phrase that we no longer notice its incorrect message.
