Three things that a man absolutely needs to get from a woman!!!

These are not whims or fantasies, this is a vital necessity - to receive certain components. There are three things that a man vitally needs to receive from a woman, and accordingly three important qualities necessary in a woman's life for a man to blossom next to her.

Because if a man does not blossom next to a woman, he fades. And if he fades, then his life force is naturally spent and his health suffers. The question is not that he is capricious or parasitic, he is simply like a baby who does not receive milk, does not satisfy his need for nutrition and simply collapses. And if he lives with a woman simply out of a sense of duty, out of some kind of attachment or out of a sense of guilt, it will be worse for everyone: him, the woman, their children, and everyone else.

So, the first feminine quality is self-sufficiency.

What is it? It is the ability to rejoice regardless of circumstances. If a woman feels good, if she is inspired, if she chirps like a bird, if she is happy with what she does or does not do, she generates energy. Even in ancient Chinese sources, the wisdom was written that a woman is a source of energy.

That is why a man, coming home from work, falls to her to get nourishment. And if a woman is in a bad mood, he has nothing to get to do his business later. That is why, first of all, a woman should do what she likes. If she wants to embroider, let her embroider. If she wants to sing, let her sing. And if she doesn’t want to, let her not sing or embroider, let her admire herself in the mirror if that will lift her spirits. If a woman is happy with her life, then a man will get the nourishment next to her that will allow him to win the war, create his own income and solve all other male problems.

Biologically, men and women are designed in such a way that one of them is a donor, and the other is a consumer. And the donor is a woman. She does not need to receive energy from a man, she receives energy from nature. No matter how many children a woman has, she is able to love them all. No matter how many hobbies a woman has, she can be fascinated by them all. Because an endless source of development is hidden within her, she is intended by nature to generate new life.

It is very important that you understand this simple thing: a man’s basic need is to receive energy from a woman.

If you are not interesting to yourself, how can you be interesting to a man? You must admire yourself, then others will admire you. So, the first point is your own happiness, your personal, independent of a man, ability to enjoy life.

The second point is your generosity, your ability to believe in a man, despite the fact that at the moment he is showing weakness.

If you have chosen this person to be with, take the time to recognize what you value in this person. What strengths would you value in them even if you were indifferent to them? What would attract you, respect you, and admire you in this person? This is practical advice, by the way.

If you don't have enough understanding and happiness in your relationship, just write a little list like this - if this person were a stranger, what would you appreciate? Look at him as a person in a relationship with other people. Unfortunately, there are often situations when people have lived their lives together and have not bothered to find out what a person needs in a partner!

If you don't see any interesting advantages for you in the list of a person's qualities, but you continue to exist with this person, then why be surprised that you are not satisfied with this relationship. Think about it - do you need them at all?

And the third point is knowledge: knowledge of how we are structured, knowledge that people have certain tools for responding.

In essence, knowing our nature, male and female, is to accept a simple thing: we are very different, and it is important to learn who I am and who he is in order to interact. We do not just speak different languages, we will always speak different languages. This is the miracle of life, that you can love, be happy, feel a sense of unity, explore the world with a being who is completely different from you! If we were similar, we would not have evolved like this.