HOW TO INSPIRE A MAN?

INTo inspire a man means to “breathe” desire into him. The desire to grow, to develop, the desire to work, to earn money, the desire to get married, to buy a house, the desire to have children, the desire to be devoted to his wife, and so on.

The question of inspiring a beloved husband worries many women. And this is understandable, because many of us want to see our husband successful and fulfilled, full of fire and enthusiasm. To inspire him to give flowers, compliments and gifts - not on holidays, but just like that. Just so that, on his way home from work, he, remembering us, suddenly goes to a flower shop to surprise us with a beautiful bouquet. Is this possible? Of course! With any man? Absolutely!

I used to hear some men say, "I don't give women flowers on principle." They couldn't explain why. Only after some time did I understand that they weren't inspired by these women. There is a romantic in the soul of every man, even the most serious, even the most businesslike, even the most principled. Making a woman happy is the natural program that controls every male! A man can't do something for himself, he doesn't get pleasure from it, because his emotional field is not as wide as a woman's.

A woman's emotions are what excites a man's mind and lights an internal fire. Emotions are the energy that a man rides on. The higher and better the emotions of the woman who feeds him, the better the man will "ride" in life. If the emotions are of poor quality, then the man's movement, like a car filled with cheap gasoline, will be short-lived, or even the system will fail and the engine will refuse to work. Therefore, the phrase "I don't give women flowers on principle" is said only by men who have never been inspired, those who have not been lucky enough to meet a real woman in their lives!

In fact, the question of inspiration is not as complicated as it may seem at first glance. Through personal experience, I have identified several points that a woman must observe in order to inspire her dear husband to feats!

1. Be beautiful
2. Be inspired by yourself
3. Give a man pleasure
4. Give a man positive emotions, be a source of happiness
5. Don't do men's work and don't act like a man

Beauty

Beauty is a great force that inspires a man very much. Appearance is the first thing a man looks at when meeting a woman. If appearance does not intrigue him, the man will not want to deepen the relationship. Being beautiful is one of the honorable duties of a great woman. Without taking this rule into account, quality inspiration will not work. A man is very inspired by female beauty! It is difficult to be a lazybones next to a domestic Goddess, and it is completely inconvenient to be a parasite next to a friendly wife who wears jewelry and a beautiful hairstyle.

To inspire, you need to be a Muse. But are Muses grumpy, touchy, in gray pants and a stretched T-shirt?.. Rather the opposite, Muses are very beautiful creatures, very smiling, very much in love with the one they inspire, very believing in him. And very good at enjoying life! Enjoying the aroma of fragrant soap, enjoying savoring a sweet cherry from a cake, enjoying kisses and a warm wind... there is so much beauty in life that can be enjoyed! And the Muse constantly fills herself, absorbing the beauty of the world through enjoying it...

And it is precisely such a woman, filled with energy, beautiful and happy, who can easily inspire a man to heroic deeds, without doing anything special! She is simply next to a man. In love with him and the beauty of the world. She is simply there. He will do the rest himself!.. It is impossible to inspire a man with tears, reproaches, or insults. The only thing he can be inspired to do with such behavior is divorce! And if a woman gets what she wants with such crude manipulations, it only shows her unfemininity and lack of inspiration. She begged, cried. Men cannot stand women's tears, so they are ready to buy us everything and agree with everything, if only we would calm down. But is there any value in this?.. No... But when you inspire him with your beauty, your love, your fulfillment, that is a completely different feeling!

Be inspired

A woman should be inspired by herself. She should be interested in being alone with herself, she should have exciting activities, hobbies. But only necessarily female ones! If you don’t know how to enjoy yourself, don’t know how to be happy and entertain yourself, for example, with dancing, meditation, walks, bachelorette parties, then where will you get the energy of inspiration for your beloved husband?..

Give a man pleasure

Pleasure can be on two levels: subtle and gross. Gross includes physical contact, such as sex, massage, touching. And subtle includes: a smile, kind words, positive emotions, happy laughter, flirting, coquetry...

Some women complain that their men are "preoccupied" with the issue of sex, they constantly pester. This can happen when the wife does not give her husband subtle pleasures. A man needs fuel in the form of female energy. But it can be obtained in different ways, not necessarily through sex. A woman can fill a man through a kiss, through tender words, touches, and so on...

But if a woman is not inspired by herself, and if her feminine center is blocked, then there will be problems with the release of pleasure... It is necessary to increase the female hormones in your body through doing feminine things, through eating sweet food, through communication with your Goddess and wearing feminine clothes, as well as through filling yourself with positive emotions from contemplating beauty.

Give a man positive emotions, be a source of happiness

A wife should be a source of joy for her husband, a source of good news. This forms the most pleasant associations with you in the man's subconscious, then he will always strive for you as a source of inexhaustible warmth and light. Try not to tell him bad news, do not overload him with your frequently changing moods. Yes, a woman has the right to be listened to by a man, for him to console her, to feel sorry for her, but you should not go too far. There are already so many problems in the world, so many difficult tasks that a man has to face, and if at home he sees his wife's sour face, dissatisfied with something, or hears negative information from her, this will clearly not arouse sympathy in him. Another thing is when the whole world speaks badly from your lips - he hears only pleasant, only inspiring words! Can you imagine what a precious diamond you can become for your man in this case?..

It is very important for a man's psyche to come home from work and see a beautiful smiling wife saying sweet words (even if he was late). One tender look from a loving wife, one gentle touch, a kind, affectionate word, can remove all his worries and fatigue, give him peace and happiness, and a man has a subconscious strong desire to return to this apartment, where he is awaited, loved and joyfully greeted.

Not doing a man's work and not acting like a man

To be an inspiring wife, you need to avoid any activity that contradicts your femininity. For example, a woman asked a man to move a wardrobe. But men, as a rule, do not immediately respond to a woman's request. He first needs to get out of his thoughts, think over his wife's words, make a decision, finish things, and only then carry out the assignment. A man rarely runs to do what he was asked to do, and this is normal. But the wife asked, and the husband continued to click the remote control in front of the TV. She asked a second time, and a third, but there was no reaction. And here are two possible scenarios. The first: unfeminine. Go and, straining herself, move the wardrobe yourself, and then be sure to throw a scandal at your husband for being a parasite, or just get very offended at him and walk around all day gloomy as a cloud.

And the second option: feminine. Having expressed a request to your husband, leave him to think it over. Don't bother him every five minutes, but go about his business... Sooner or later, but the man will move the closet. Do you know when men move closets? In two cases. The first, and this is how it should always be: when they want to! And the second: when they force you... A woman voices a request and leaves. If a man immediately goes to fulfill it, he feels like a henpecked husband "They forced me." So he drags out time. So that she forgets about the request, and I, like, made the decision to move the closet myself, went and moved it. That's what men are like, and you need to know and respect this.

That is, the first option - to do men's work yourself - contradicts female nature, and therefore does not inspire. If you want to prove something to a man and demonstratively do men's work yourself in front of him, then prove to him in this way that you are a strong independent woman, you cope perfectly well yourself, and you do not need a man. But in the second case, which does not contradict femininity, a man will gladly show care and help, because in front of him is a weak creature who knows nothing and can do nothing. Of course, this is what he thinks :) We know that when a man is not at home, our cabinets are easy to move and shelves are nailed down. But when a man is nearby, he should not even allow such a thought that you know how to do men's work. The more feminine you are, the more inspired he is to be masculine!

Use this knowledge for Good and be happy!