"We weren't warned!" or 33 revelations about sex.

Why do sex lessons at school (if they even exist) teach us everything about the reproductive system and nothing about orgasm? Or how to discuss it with a partner. How to perform oral sex? How many people learned about sex from pornography or from their (equally inexperienced) peers? And their parents’ attempts – often painfully clumsy – only caused embarrassment and a rush of blood to the face. Remember that?

Reddit users they also remember And generously share discoveries they've made on the path to good sex, for better or worse. Especially girls. Apparently, they've had enough.

About realities

1. Sex on the beach or in the bathtub may not be as great as it is shown in the movies.
2. If you use food, remember that cream and honey are very sticky.
3. You don't have to change positions every 30 seconds like in pornography. But you don't have to stay in one either.
4. Sex in general doesn't look much like porn.
5. Sooner or later, you'll do something incredibly awkward. You'll be terrified. A good partner won't care.
6. Sex is often weird and awkward. And sometimes it's absolutely intuitive and wildly beautiful. Slowly, looking into the eyes, or quickly and dirty. There is no one right way to do it.
7. After good, long, passionate sex, you'll have to clean yourself up, and there's no quick, elegant way to do it.
   

   About women

8. On average, a man experiences an orgasm during masturbation 2-4 minutesWomen need approximately 2-3 times more time, depending on its anatomical features, state of consciousness and method of stimulation.
9. Many women are turned on by dirty talk (verbal descriptions of a partner's fantasies/intentions during sex, etc.). Some researchers believe that this explains the relative unpopularity of mainstream pornography among women, as opposed to literary erotica. However, many men also really like dirty talk.
10. Why do many women fake orgasm? Because many men fake foreplay.
11. There are women (50-70% (according to various estimates) who cannot cum from vaginal sex alone. Need direct clitoral stimulation. It's worth talking about. And there's no need to be ashamed of it.
12. Scientists have tried, but have found no other meaning in this part of the female anatomy. The clitoris exists just for pleasure.
13. Sex toys were invented not only for masturbation.
14. The G-spot (strictly speaking, it is not a point, but a whole system) exists, and its sensitivity can often be developed.
15. There is still room for development Kegel muscles.
16. It is useful for girls to empty their bladder after vaginal sex. This prevents a number of bacteria from getting into the urethra.
17. Statistically, women are noisier in bed.
18. A woman has the right to want and love sex no less than a man.
    

    About men

19. A man will not always initiate sex, his libido will not always be stronger. Men, like women, very different.
20. If a man wants something dirty and depraved in bed, it does not mean that he does not love and respect you. He does not love and respect you if he does not care whether you want the same.
21. Men watch porn. Period. If this bothers you (why?), just accept it as a fact. Or watch it too. Maybe with him.
22. During blowjobs, girls often do not pay due attention to their partner's scrotum. And in vain.
23. For a good blowjob it is not necessary (and sometimes impossible) to swallow the whole penis. In any case, its most sensitive part is the head.
24. The gag reflex is normal, but if you want, you can gradually get rid of it. Practice, practice, practice.
25. "Log girl" is not a myth. Most men would prefer it if you were one too. be active in bed.
26. Many men like to dominate. But not all. Don't label them, you know how unpleasant it is. Better ask.
27. Men often have very sensitive scalp (the one on their shoulders). Run your nails down the back of his neck, run your hand through his hair. He'll like it.
    

    About the right attitude

28. The number of sexual partners (many or few) has no bearing on your value as a person.
29. The child reminds us that beauty is multifaceted, and there will always be people - maybe the whole world, maybe one person - who will prefer you to all others.♥
30. Sometimes you will not want sex at all. This does not make you impotent or frigid.
31. Some people don't want sex at all. Ever. You may not understand it, you may not agree with it, but asexuality really does exist.
32. The most amazing sex - with the one you loveBut love alone does not guarantee great sex.
33. Nobody, that is. nobody at all is not born a sex god. It is a skill that needs to be learned. And completely or partially re-learned with each new partner. Try. Love each other. Learn to give and experience pleasure. And never be ashamed of anything.

Source: http://lifehacker.ru/2014/07/26/33-otkroveniya-o-sekse/