2 Rules That Will Change Your Love Life Forever
Blogger Morena Morana wrote about two simple things without which your relationship is doomed to fail.
Throw away all the books about tasty and healthy sex. To hell with advice on how to have a chick or get married. There are only two rules in sexual life that really work. They are good for both men and women. And those who don’t know them are doomed to waste time and nerves on the wrong people.
Rule number one: Relationships should be easy
It should be easy from the very beginning. From the first minutes. A person with whom you immediately feel like old friends is more suitable for you than one who needs to be courted for years. A guy with whom you are ready to retire in a shopping center toilet in fifteen minutes is better than the one to whom you have been writing letters for seven years without an answer. A girl who immediately shows interest in you is better than an unapproachable beauty who needs to be taken to the Bahamas.
Simple means good. Complex means bad. This is an axiom. No need to prove it.
In general, you don't need to prove anything at your own expense in a relationship. You don't need to win anyone over, adapt to anyone, or run after anyone. Once you do this once, you'll do it every day, and in response you'll only see a capricious, dissatisfied face. If things don't work out right away, don't light up, don't drag it out. That means he's not your person. Difficult relationships are only good for those who are bored and have a lot of free time. For everyone else, these sufferings only ruin the nerves.
Don't carry difficult relationships on your own. Relationships in which you do nothing but dance to someone else's tune are humiliating. Sooner or later, your patience will run out. Don't let yourself get sucked into complicated relationships.
Rule number two, but no less important. Relationships should bring joy
This statement also does not need proof. As soon as the relationship has stopped bringing joy and has started bringing nastiness, stop this phenomenon at the root.
Don't get used to squabbles, tears and breaking dishes. Leave long conversations, reproaches, mutual accusations. This is not normal! This is the path to hell! As soon as the joy leaves the relationship, it becomes useless. It would seem much simpler.
But many people chew the chewed-over hay of their grievances for years! They occupy their brains with unnecessary showdowns! You don’t need to do this! As soon as you understand that your words are taking away joy – shut your mouth. The showdown begins – leave. A person only wants to blame and reproach – don’t let them plant a sense of guilt in you. Leave!
Relationships are needed for joy. All other relationships “for the sake of the children”, “because everyone lives like that”, “out of habit”, “because without her it’s even worse” can simply be taken and thrown into the trash.
For me, there are only two main rules. Do you agree with them?
