A woman becomes a goddess if she refuses everyone 18 times
If a woman truly loves herself, she will not allow many things in her life. And today I do not want to reason, but to show examples of where and how we betray ourselves with our own hands.
SELF-LOVE
Such a complex concept. Some people think that loving yourself means using expensive creams, buying branded clothes, admiring your reflection in the mirror. But this is not self-love. This is love for your body and ego, often disguised as a bunch of complexes.
To love yourself is first and foremost to respect yourself.
If a woman truly loves herself, she will not allow many things in her life. And today I do not want to reason, but to show examples of where and how we betray ourselves with our own hands.
1. We are led by fashion trends, we are afraid of being out of trend, changing our own style and preferences.
2. We allow other people to tell us what to wear, what to say, what to eat, what to think.
3. We put our bodies on display on the street and on social networks, trying to earn the approving glance of passers-by or a virtual heart on the phone screen.
4. We communicate with those with whom we feel uncomfortable and who take away our energy simply because it is necessary or because there is no one else to communicate with.
5. We are jealous of our husbands towards their secretaries because we believe that we do not deserve his love in full.
6. We criticize, judge and gossip in an attempt to exalt our own worthiness.
7. We dream about what we are supposed to dream about, and we don’t care what our own hearts whisper.
8. We insert silicone balls into our breasts, inflate our lips, cut off our noses, and cut off our skin because the current standard of beauty is created by society, not by God.
9. We eat poison from bags, pour poison from jars into our bodies, destroying our bodies, because we don’t like them anyway.
10. We envy our friends, husbands, children who managed to avoid bad habits and realize their dreams.
11. We argue with our own parents, because the life they gave us is worth nothing.
12. We get married and have children not because we want to, but because it’s time and our family demands it.
13. We get a job not that we like, but that brings money and prestige.
14. We fall for the provocations of offenders, make excuses and defend ourselves, instead of removing this person from our playlist.
15. We rest not where our soul desires, but where the photographs will turn out beautiful.
16. We polish the family china until it shines for guests, but we ourselves live in an incomprehensible way.
17. We spend hours thinking about our fears instead of spending even a minute praying to God because we don’t believe that we deserve a better protector.
18. We choose the faith that belongs to our parents, our idol, our country, and not to our own hearts.
And there are many other things we do wrong. Because there is no love.
Neither to oneself, nor to people, nor to God.
When we don't respect ourselves, we can't love others.
No strength. No experience. No knowledge.
You will create the appearance of a loving wife, mother and daughter, but without her you are just a time grenade.
Take care of your diamond, polish and cut its facets.
But don't become someone else.
You are the only one.
Sourcehttp://vzhizne.ru/zhenshchina-stanovitsya-boginey-esli-18-raz/
