Male Sexuality Through the Eyes of Women

It is not enough to be handsome, strong and charming. Women are attracted to men who have completely different qualities. According to psychotherapist Claudia Toledo, founder of the largest Brazilian dating site A2 Encontros, each woman has her own priorities when determining male sexuality, which still have a certain rating.

The first impression is of great importance: "A woman first looks at shoes, then hair, nails, stomach." In addition, if the opportunity arises to go out somewhere together, she notes the adequacy of his clothes for the occasion and the condition of the car (not the brand, but the cleanliness).

What makes a man sexually attractive to women, according to Claudia Toledo?

1. Stylishness

Moreover, it is not necessary to follow fashion, a man should be able to present himself in any style of clothing, be it classic, sport, or one of the trendy styles, and at the same time, a woman does not care how much shoes or a shirt cost, the main thing is cleanliness and tidiness.

2. Popularity

For many women, a sexy man is one who is recognized and noticed in a group. Such a man has charisma - a wonderful mixture of self-confidence, the ability to captivate, charm, appearance and inner strength. He orders his favorite dish for the lady and has no doubt that she will like it.

3. Determination

Women like the active position of a man, when he instantly makes a decision, even without her consent. Such a man decisively conquers and no less decisively holds. He is generous and loves to talk, and does not miss the opportunity to compliment a woman. A woman, feeling his reliability, begins to make plans.

Considering that she "loves with her ears", a good conversationalist will always find the key to her sexuality and "close" it on himself. "There is nothing sexier than this determination," Claudia believes.

4. Intelligence

Many women value an educated and intelligent man and find him very sexy. This is an important quality, but unfortunately, such a man is not always communicative and able to convey his potential to a woman. But if intelligence is combined with strength and power, then a rare woman will resist.

5. Sense of humor

A man with a good sense of humor is very sexy. Laughter is a great communication channel. The very fact that a woman laughs at the same thing means that she finds you attractive.

6. Wealth

If a woman feels a man's financial independence, it is very sexy, but it is not a determining factor. Women quite feel a man's ability to achieve stability in the future, but if a man has already established himself at 30, it excites women very much.

7. Generosity

A woman finds sexy a man who surprises her with an expensive gift for an occasion and pays a large restaurant bill. This does not mean that she loves money and not you, but only that you can be relied upon materially if necessary. Many famous and wealthy men make generous donations, not to win a woman over, but for completely different reasons, and often we do not know that they are involved in charity.

8. From a good family

Men do not suspect, but any woman wants her chosen one to be from a good family, prefer family values and seek stable relationships. Such men have always been and will be in demand. A man with good roots, faithful and caring, is very sexy.

According to a curious Western classification of psychotypes, a "man-dog" (everything in the house) is always preferable to a "man-cat", who is just waiting for her to fall asleep so he can run away from home. However, there are women who find the latter sexier. It is only important to remember that you should never remake a man - you can't make a dog out of a cat - it is impossible in principle.

9. Ability to dance

Yes, such a man is a gift to a woman. And if both love to dance, then dancing is like a runway for a relationship that always ends in bed. This method is often used by psychotherapists to improve relationships in a couple. When he leads and she obeys, it gives the woman pleasure, she is delighted.

10. Shyness

If a man is shy and balanced, women find him sexy because of the air of mystery that is not there. But women want to find out what such men are hiding. This requires interrogation, strength and hard work, as a result, the woman gets involved and does not stop thinking about her partner, makes plans and falls into his net.

11. Impudence

Women love persistent and impudent men, of course, in moderation and in place. Danger makes their hearts beat faster. Women are attracted by a man's ability to take an unexpected step, for example, a forced kiss, hugs, maybe even shameful for her, but causing strong emotions.

Source http://lady.pravda.ru/articles/love/12-01-2012/7974-men/