Intimate secrets: what do we hide from men?

Men, of course, are not so naive as not to learn about a woman what they would like to know, especially since there is more than enough information about sex now. But even understanding this, we want to reserve the right to remain a mystery, not fully accessible and not a very open book.

1. SEXUAL EXPERIENCE

Women's publications sometimes advise never to reveal the number of partners in the past, sometimes they recommend not to play hard to get. In most cases, we do not particularly use this advice, but act on the principle of our own benefit. If the relationship with a man is important and in the long term you want more than just sex, it is unlikely that he will find out the truth about the real sexual experience of his beloved.

What is there to hide? In fact, a man does not need to know about the advantages of your exes in bed. A new story begins with your meeting.

What is there to hide? The presence of significant romances in bed for you and important preferences, including disadvantages. If a previous lover has discouraged you from a certain type of sex, you should not remain silent.

2. SEXUAL SINS

We define our failures ourselves, and a man may not find something that is a disaster for us to be a problem at all. But some things are really hard to discuss. For example, you probably don’t want to tell him that you were capable of cheating in the past. Of course, there is nothing like that in the plans, but in general, there is nothing pleasant about it anyway.

What is there to hide? Anything that will put you in an awkward situation or may create difficulties in the future.

3. MEDICAL SECRETS

Luckily, illegitimate children no longer exist as a shameful stain on a biography, so there is no need to hide that you mother of two children and this is an obvious result of your sexual life - not necessarily. But still we hide both the fact that we got rid of pregnancies, and the pregnancies themselves, especially the fact that we were treated for spicy diseases, like all living people.

What is there to hide? Something that doesn't matter to your current sex life.

What is there to hide? The presence of diseases that can put your partner's health at risk.

4. APPEARANCE FAULTS

This is a classic. We manage to cover up cellulite with thongs and compensate for full hips with thin ankles. And these are not just secrets, but real top-notch spy aerobatics. But both sides are happy here.

What is there to hide? In fact, what upsets you. But just in case, make sure that the man really doesn't mind seeing you thinner than you are.

What is there to hide? The effort you put into impressing him. Even if it comes easy to you.

5. YOUR OWN FANTASIES

Hollywood sex symbols come and go, but the habit of imagining them in your partner's place remains. But that's not the biggest secret. Sometimes we want something that might make us feel awkward in front of a man. And we keep quiet.

What is there to hide? Something you're unlikely to implement in real life. Except for stories for role-playing games.

What is there to hide? What you like and how you like it. Otherwise, there is no point in going to bed.

6. YOUR FEELINGS

This is the secret that is by definition considered common knowledge - why repeat a hundred times about love, which has a decent term. But in sex, feelings are the determining factor. Therefore, it is not a sin to repeat.

What is there to hide? It's not scary to hide irritation and anger if the reason is not worth it.

What is there to hide? Passion, tenderness, affection, trust and admiration that you experience every time, being next to your loved one.